Sunday, July 29, 2018

Mel Watt Sexual Harassment -- July 2018

Well, well...I believe everything this woman has to say!

https://www.cbsnews.com/news/fhfa-director-mel-watt-under-investigation-for-alleged-sexual-harassment/

#blackonblackinjustice

Friday, June 3, 2011

The Deception

It was right about the spring of 1990 and I was feeling pretty confident that my idea of a widely distributed Black business directory was going to become a reality soon especially since I ran into TX at a business networking function and he disclosed to me that he had dropped his plans to publish a similar directory. God was working things out in my favor I thought until I contacted the National Association of Black Pages in Atlanta, GA. I ended up speaking with a gentleman by the name of Mr. Ken Reid, lauded publisher of the Atlanta Black Pages, and former president of the National Association of Black Pages. He confirmed to me that their organization was indeed legitimate and that the newly elected President was now Mr. Arnette D. French (Now deceased) of Kansas City, MO, also publisher of the Kansas City, MO; Dallas, TX, and Chicago, IL; Black Pages. At that time they listed 53 Black business publications throughout the United States which excluded Charlotte, NC. I considered this conversation euphoric in that I was now going to possibly join other more experience Black entrepreneurs in publishing a quality directory for the Queen City. It did not take me long to contact Mr. French via telephone and I was indeed honored and excited about his return call especially since this was the same guy that TX Green worked for in Chicago producing the Black Pages there.

Mr. French came across as confident, experienced, and trustworthy during our brief phone conversation. He asked me how far I have gotten in the publishing process and I responding openly and honestly about what I had accomplished up until that point. I mentioned the Mahogany publication, my survey/questionnaire, the favorable responses, and the fact that TX was no longer going to publish. He then said something that at the time I believed to be a sure sign that my dream of publishing a widely-distributed Black business directory was well on its way to becoming a reality. He said, “Stop what you are doing; I want to train you to make sure you are going to produce a quality publication.” To me his statement was equivalent to Berry Gordy offering me a recording contract with Motown Records in the 1950’s and 1960’s during its prime. It did not matter that I was to travel to his office in Kansas City, MO; at my own expense and pay him the total sum of $600.00 for two days of training. We both decided on a weekend in early July of 1990 for my professional Black directory publishing training. He then asked, “So what are you going to call this publication?” My response was, I do not know; he then suggested that I call it the Charlotte Black Pages. I repeated it several times each time becoming more and more excited about my new undertaking this time with help from a seasoned veteran publisher and mentor. I then asked if he knew of anyone else – other than TX – planning to publish a Black Page directory in Charlotte, NC. He replied, “No, you now have the territory.”

I followed Mr. French’s orders and stopped working on my new publication until I received the proper training. Not long after our phone conversation I received a confirmation letter (Postmarked June 8, 1990) from Arnette French addressed to me as the Charlotte Black Page minus the “s”. Wow!  He also mentioned to me an executive board meeting of the officers of the National Association of Black Pages Publishers that was going to take place in April of 1990 in Georgia. That invite went way over my head in that I had not yet published. I could not wait to get back to my office at Duke Power and give Hosie the good news. I cannot remember exactly what he said but it seems as though he was not as excited about the news. Was he jealous?

The Training:

It was now July and my excitement swelled as my training days became nigh. I booked my room at the then Adam’s Mark Hotel located near the Kansas City Royals baseball stadium. I recall the drive taking a lot longer than I had planned but the excitement of meeting with the one and only Arnette D. French served as my motivator throughout the arduous journey. Back then there was no MapQuest or GPS to help plan a trip of this magnitude, you had to really on national maps published by folks like Rand McNally. I drove until I became so cross-eyed from fatigue that I was seeing things like a Black dog crossing in front of me so I had to pull over at some hotel in Indiana before I ended my trip early. Finally, after 18 plus hours of driving, I arrived in Kansas City early that Friday evening with enough time to check in and turn in early for my Saturday morning training which was to begin at 8 or 9 AM as I recall. I woke up early that next Saturday morning and gave myself enough time to locate Mr. French’s office building located across town at 1601 East 18th Street, Suite 315. The building was quite impressive in that it featured three floors of offices laid out on the perimeter and all inside. There were these colorful banners/streamers hanging from the ceiling that added an ornate appeal to the interior of the office building. I was decked out in my favorite/only grey suit accompanied by my business brief case. His office was on the second floor and upon arrival I noticed a Black female decked out in business attire already there waiting outside Mr. French’s office suite. We did not speak. It was about a 20 minute wait before we heard the deep voice of a gentleman approaching from downstairs. He said something to the effect of “Sorry for being late I had to….” I was quite surprised when I turned around and there he was, a very dark-skinned, somewhat short roly poly gentleman who sported a short fro and was wearing shorts; a t-shirt, white socks, and no – yes – no shoes. Whoa I thought, this can’t be the mentor that I drove all of this way to pay $600.00, and bear all travel expenses, for a two-day crash course in Black Page publishing. Well, he indeed introduced himself as Arnette French to me and the other woman who turns out was there for the same training. Her name was Isabella “Izzy” Cooke and she was planning to publish a Black Page directory in Bloomington, IL. She was currently holding down a position as a purchasing coordinator for State Farm Insurance.

After being offered a seat, Mr. French wasted no time in requesting his training fee up front. We both paid by check. In hind sight I should have written mine on rubber because back then there were no Century 21 instant checks processing! Anyhow, after collecting his $1,200.00 for his two-day crash course in Black Page publishing, he quickly got right down to business and handed each one of us an outline of our pending training. I must admit that I was immediately impressed with his level of training organization. It gave me the impression that he had done this course before as he went over each item line by line to give us an overview of what to expect. I must also admit that as each hour of training progressed I became more and more impressed with this brother who really knew his stuff. He even included a Pro-Forma Cash Flow and Income Statement in our packet; at the time I had no idea of what they were. We broke for lunch and lo and behold he made a phone call and Walla, a catered meal was delivered a short time later. “It’s included with the price,” he bragged. Training day one concluded about four or five PM that Saturday and I took with me a lot of notes, forms, and other materials shared with me by the late Arnette French. I now had some real stuff to put in my business brief case.

I partied hard that night at the Adam’s Mark Hotel; it was my way of celebrating my success to this point. After all, it had been over four years since the idea of publishing a widely-circulated Black business directory in Charlotte, NC, was given to me by the good Lord above. I remember lightly floating out of the hotel lobby that next morning and smiling ear to ear when the front desk person wished me a nice day. That Sunday’s training (Which ended around 12 Noon) was not as intense as Mr. French focused on the nuts and bolts of getting our publications off the ground and running. He strongly suggested that we select an office in a prominent Black business building for maximum exposure. He also gave us key buzz questions to ask when seeking advertising from corporate America. Questions like “Who handles the minority purchasing requirements in your organization?” He also quoted two phrases of wisdom and encouragement that I remember and repeat to this very day. They are, “If it is to be, it is up to me;” and “It doesn’t Just Happen.” The only thing that I did not like about the training – other than his unprofessional dress – is his assessment that he did not think that I had what it took to produce a successful publication. Nothing could be further than the truth given my track record of educational (Honor student), work (Always promoted on time), and military (Senior Non-Commissioned Officer at age 27, tied for youngest in our Battalion) success at that time. Mr. French agreed to take a photo of me to document this historic meeting after our training was done and he even treated me to a late breakfast at Shoneys or someplace like that that serves late breakfast.

My drive back to Charlotte was plagued with extreme fatigue and monetary shortcomings as I almost ran out of gas several times. I was using my Chevron card which is not widely accepted on the east coast. I made it to ironically (Will explain later) Spartanburg, SC, before I could go no further on Interstate 85 North. I crashed once again in my car at a gas station and woke up that Monday morning in enough time to call in sick from work. It took me two additional days to recuperate enough physically and mentally to return to my day job at Duke Power Company. I was once again very excited to report to Hosie Caldwell the details of my trip and what I had learned from Mr. Arnette D. French in Kansas City, MO, on my wonderfully productive weekend.

The First Pay Off -- Back to Business

Although I was living the American single man's dream with a college degree, a great salaried job, aspiring military career; my own bachelor pad, a new sports car, and many friends -- male and female -- something was missing. I fast forwarded five, ten, and twenty years and could not see myself living the same lifestyle and being as happy. Especially when I noticed that there were Black engineers at Duke Power at the time that had been doing the same job for 10 or more years without being promoted. On the flip side, their white counterparts were now their supervisors and managers. Hmmmmmmmmm I thought, that could be me; passed over because I was not a good ole southern boy whose mama, daddy, uncle; niece, nephew, and stepson all worked for Duke back when they did not hire people of color at all. Add the fact that my immediate supervisor -- John Dean Tadlock -- who did not have a college degree, was just waiting for me to mess up so he would have an excuse to fire me because he knew that I was not going to be another Black "yes sum boss" man. In fact, he would not allow me to go out to work in the field with Mary Kay -- another Black female engineer -- because as he stated, "I cannot see how the two of you are being productive out there." What a racist asshole! To add insult to injury, I was physically attacked -- In front of a witness -- by another white engineer (Stan, I cannot remember his last name) while in the office, and instead of him receiving some type of punishment I was eventually sent home with pay. I was told that I was getting out of hand after realizing Stan was not going to be punished for physically violating my civil rights in front of an eye witness and while on the job. It became really creepy and scary when I learned later on that my assault and battery charges were dropped by the Mecklenburg County assistant district attorney without my testimony. Like I said earlier, Duke used to literally run this town! I should have given Stan something to remember me by like a broken nose or severe concussion.

Now, let’s get back to the matter at hand. It was not long before I received my first survey/questionnaire response on March 5, 1990, which came from the Beatties Ford Road Hardware store located at 2731 Beatties Ford Road. Mr. Jimmy McCoy responded with a "maybe" but went a step further and pointed me in the direction of Black-owned businesses south of Interstate 85 along the same road. Believe it or not, these folks are still in business today and getting good reviews on the Internet. Over the next few weeks and months more questionnaires were returned and a good deal of them positive. I said earlier that I did not know the exact percent of positives but it was at least 25% favorable of my new idea. During this time of waiting, I recalled during my meeting with TX -- in September 1989 -- that he mentioned that there was such a thing as the National Association of Black Pages headquartered in Atlanta, GA, at the time. As the number of favorable responses increased I became more and more confident that my idea was going to fly. I then began to research this organization to find out how to contact them. I did not dare contact TX because I did not want to tip him off that I was still working on this project. It took some time to locate this organization because again back then the Internet was not available to the general public. In other words I had to do it the old fashion way by letting my fingers do the walking across the Yellow Pages. Funny; you will hear more about the yellow pages scenario later in this piece!



The First Pay Off -- Background

Later that same year, 1985, I was offered and accepted an engineering position with Charlotte's then largest and most influential employer -- the mighty Duke Power Company who at the time practically owned the Queen City. I actually was not very excited about this job because I really really wanted to work for IBM which was more closely related to my degree -- Electronics Engineering. But I guess they were not really hiring future great employees at the time; there lost! I remember being shown around town by one of the Duke Power guys but for some reason he avoided the west, southwest, and northwest sides of town. Hmmmmmmmm, I wonder why? Could it have been because those were and still are the Black sides of town? Inquiring minds want to know! It would be a while before I realized that more Blacks lived in Charlotte than the ones on my job.

I remember Hosie -- my former engineering mentor -- literally drawing me a map of how to get to Beatties Ford Road (The Black side) from North Sharon-Amity Road which was mostly white back then. He took me on the scenic route via Harris Boulevard -- which was the country back then -- and I ended up on North Beatties Ford Road coming in off Cindy Lane. My destination was to Edwards Barber Shop which still appears (According to the internet) to be located in the strip mall down from what used to be the U.S. Post Office which is now owned by Friendship Missionary Baptist Church. I had some great times being a fly on the wall at this establishment listening and learning about my new city. I also had some great times with my hair at the time! Little did I know at the time that that same road would be the source of much success and unfortunate failures in the years to come.

I spent the first five years in Charlotte enjoying my success as an engineer, U.S. Army Reserve Drill Instructor, sports enthusiast, and wanna be playa playa. It was really on when I purchased my first new automobile in 1987; it was a brand new, fresh off the lot, still in the plastic, new car smellin Nissan 200SX Black (My favorite color) sports coupe with flip up headlights, grey clothe seats, a boomin sound system, 5-speed stick, and a sun/moon roof. I still remember my salesman; his name was Jim Walthall or something like that. It was really really on when I finally learned how to drive a stick; my then roommate taught me in the back parking lot of the old Independence Arena now Bojangles Arena off East Independence Boulevard. I lived at the time right next door in the now infamous Doral Apartments well known today for flooding.

This new meat wagon was my ticket to winning the game of skirt chasing which consisted of yours truly hunting down and catching as many cuties as possible in the shortest period of time and spending as little as possible on the hunt. Hey, I was single and free to mingle! One of my favorite hunting grounds was the now historic (To the brothas and sistas in the know) club rightfully named as Another World which was located exactly where the Tropical Lounge is currently off of Beatties Ford Road near Interstate 85. The door man was a character by the name of Mr. T (Not the A Team Star) and those of you that know or knew him know that he was indeed animated. For example, he would greet every guest that entered his club with a warm salutation while holding a wad of cash; when I say wad, I mean so much cash that he had to struggle to keep it balled up in his severely expanded fist. Another World was just one cut above a juke joint a.k.a. liquor house or after hours club. In fact, it was the second club that I crashed here after the old K&Q (Kings and Queens) in Uptown off South Brevard and 4th Streets. Young playas today would perhaps call it a second or last chance club if you know what I mean. No matter what day of the week, this club was jumpin. It had the best buffet in town that featured real food like chicken wings, potato salad, meat balls, etc...One last salute to the historic Another World and Mr. T!

The Leg Work

Soon after taking the advice of Mr. Caldwell to not give up on my dream just because of what someone said during a meeting, I began continuing my research into where all of these Black-owned businesses were located with extra help from the Mahogany directory obtained through my earlier research. Sadly, a great deal of the phone numbers were disconnected although the publication was not quite a year old. I was, however, able to salvage enough good numbers to begin the laborious task of calling enough listed numbers to confirm addresses for my survey/questionnaire. Basically, my goal was to connect directly with the folks that I would then pitch for paid advertising in my new yet unnamed Black business directory.

The holiday season was rapidly approaching and I was determined to get my survey in the mail right after the New Year which was January 1990. My strategy here was not to procrastinate especially since TX had indicated during our meeting in September 1989 that he was nearing a publishing date for his similar publication. I also continued badgering my fellow Black associates at Duke Power Company for additional business names and locations. This type of research was a lot more arduous back then due to the lack of modern day technology like the Internet, email, and cell phones which did not exist. It is partially for that reason that I was not able to mail my survey/questionnaire out until the end of February 1990 almost two months past my target date of January 1, 1990. Well, I thought to myself after the mailing, if the responses are mostly negative then at least I kept my word and tried to follow my dream of publishing a widely-circulated Black business directory for Charlotte, NC.

I remember to this day my heart pounding as I individually licked and stamped each one-page survey/questionnaire to over 50 local Black-owned businesses. I said a quick prayer, remained positive, and went about my normal routine as a Distribution Engineer for Duke Power Company by day and a somewhat party animal by night. I was approaching 30 years old and decided that that type of lifestyle was slowly getting old, empty, and non-challenging. I had already been divorced, fathered a child, and earned the first of my three college degrees. I was also rapidly advancing my career in the military holding down a slot as a Senior Drill Instructor in the 2/321st Regiment, 108th Division, US Army Reserves, out of Fort Bragg, NC.

Before that I had served over three years as a Paratrooper on active duty at Fort Bragg, NC in the 7th Special Forces Group Signal Company. Our job was to follow the teams anywhere in the world and provide the very important communications necessary to get them in and out of some pretty exotic places. Our mission was to travel around the world to various exotic places, meeting very exotic people, and then killing them! I ended my time in service there in July of 1982 after honorably serving four years on active duty. I finally completed my A.S. Degree in Electronics Engineering in 1985, seven years after starting the program in 1978. I was fortunate to graduate with honors after such a long time and so many disruptions and distractions while on active duty, and afterwards as a civilian. None of my family members attended my graduation nor can I remember receiving one congratulatory card. It was indeed a lonely affair.

Thursday, June 2, 2011

The Research

Well, with my motivation still high and my energy and excitement acting as the wind beneath my sail, I set out to research the market further to see if anyone else was planning a distributed Black business directory. Lo and behold I came across a similar publication called Mahogany that was published by Ms. Mattie B. Marshall Circa early 1989. It contained 74 pages of business listings and display ads and was available at seven locations throughout Charlotte, NC. While this publication was somewhat similar to what I had in mind, it did not come close to scratching the surface of what I considered a viable distribution area consisting of many more locations as well as via the postal service. I therefore continued to search the Charlotte market for others planning a widely distributed Black business directory.

Word spread in the local Black business community of my intentions and that is when I received a call from a Mr. Theautry -- a.k.a. TX -- Green. Like me, he was a transplant here; me from Miami, FL, and himself from Chicago, IL. We quickly set up a meeting to pick each other’s brain and to feel one another out as to who was farther along in the process of starting this new business venture. We met some time in the middle of September 1989 for dinner at the now defunct Damon's Ribs located in the at the time new shopping plaza at the corner of The Plaza and Eastway Drive. Ironically, this restaurant was one of my projects as a Distribution Engineer for Duke Power Company.

The meeting went well and to my surprise TX pulled out several publications of what they called Black Pages from major U.S. cities like Chicago, IL, Atlanta, GA, and St. Louis, MO, and Dallas, TX. He gave me the impression that he was well on his way to publishing here in Charlotte especially since he had worked for the publisher of the Black Pages for St. Louis, Chicago, and Dallas. His name was Mr. Arnette French; I will get to him later. Well, I thought to myself, it had to be a great idea because someone else was going to make it happen. Unfortunately, TX did not give me any indication that he was willing to allow me to assist him even though I shared with him the positive feedback that I received from my earlier survey. So I went away partially exited but also disappointed that I was not going to be able to make my dream come true.

I went back to my office then located just down the street near the railroad tracks off Eastway Drive. The building is now used as a wrecker service that displays a truck filled with Christmas lights during the holiday season. Back then it was known as the Newell station for Duke Power Company. I discussed my meeting with TX with my then engineering mentor Mr. Hosie Caldwell, Jr. After listening very carefully to my recap of the meeting, he brought something to my attention that I surely missed. He asked me if TX had shown me any proof of his claims of being well on the road to publishing, e.g. signed contracts. Hosie also stated that that may have been part of his strategy to intimidate me into quitting giving him a free reign on the market. Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm I thought he may be right; so I once again became excited about my project and continued to work on bringing it to market.